Go For It!!!

Updated: Jan 14




Have you ever met someone you just felt comfortable with... You know like with him/her, you're your authentic self... When the two of you are together you can't help but smile because your heart is smiling bigger than ever... Or how about meeting someone who you absolutely adore; want to build a future with; want to share your thoughts and dreams with? This is the person you wake up thinking about, go to bed anticipating the next day when you can pick up the phone to text/call him/her... Man I remember those days...


Days when feelings were pure; fun and easy... Days when it didn't seem like a sacrifice to stay up later than usual talking with him/her... Days when he/she are solely interested in you... But I also remember so many times when I allowed the moment to pass me by... Fear got the best of me and instead of me stepping out and going for it, I chose to follow their lead...


Because we live in a time where "tones" are so hard to read, many of us fear stepping out and just saying "Hey, I'm into you....". We believe the perception will be we're moving too fast; thirsty or possibly turn the person off and lose the good thing we have. So we end up in the "Friend Zone" watching the one we want pursue someone else...


What I know for sure is... Sometimes you just have to "Go For It"... You have to trust your inner gut that the time is right and dive in head first... Now before you just jump, MAKE SURE THE MOMENT IS RIGHT... Make sure you've allowed time for the two of you to develop an interest in each other, meaning don't jump in on the first night or even the first week... Give it some time for clarity for yourself as well as the other person. I know it can be scary placing yourself in such a vulnerable position, but what's even scarier is not taking the chance at all.


Remember, NO ONE CAN REJECT YOU, they can just choose not to give you what you want...


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