Ladies, Want To know Why?




I’m blessed to know some remarkable women… I mean women who are ambitious, beautiful, driven, focused and you already know, SUPER INTELLIGENT!!! Sadly to say, some of these women can shame a man… They’re articulate, precise and their intuition is so on point it’s frightening… As smart as these women are, there’s one thing they find themselves constantly pondering…. Why they can’t either find a man? Keep a man? Or why the men they attract aren’t worth a damn???


As intriguing as their conversation may be, if you listen closely enough, even the men these women shame could figure out the answer to their questions… I’m always baffled by the fact of how people fail to get to know who other’s truly are… You see if you would only listen, you could get every answer you want, but this is the problem, WE DON’T LISTEN… Most times we are too busy selling ourselves, making ourselves appear desirable; a one of a kind and irresistible… We talk so much until listening is something we never do… When we do shut our mouths, we still aren’t listening because we’re pondering what we will say next ABOUT OURSELVES… So where am I going with this? Well thanks for asking…


The reason many of these women can’t find a man is because they can’t handle a man… They can’t handle the man being the head and the woman being the neck which supports and guides him. They can’t handle even though they walk hand In hand, allowing him to pull her in the direction they should go… They can’t handle submitting, NOT surrendering…. Can’t handle teaching him how to treat her, NOT nagging about how he treats her…


The reason many of these women can’t keep a man is because they lack the smarts of how to treat a man… They’ve been bamboozled into believing every man is the same, lack emotions, and into believing a man wants a certain type of woman in which they are not… Because they transform into the woman believed he wants, they’re unable to satisfy him because they’re unhappy with the woman they’ve become… Can’t make a man happy if you’re not happy with the woman…


The reason many of these women attract men who aren’t worth a damn, well it’s because at their core, they’re not worth one either… Now don’t get me wrong, there’s good in all of us… But sadly to say these women never work digging through the rubble to get to it… The good in them is buried underneath all the hurt, brokenness, generational curses and wounds of their past… Their toxic and brokenness attracts the toxic and brokenness in the men they date and marry. Just so you know, brokenness comes in many forms so just because a man’s flaws and brokenness appears differently than yours, doesn’t mean you aren’t attracting it…


What I know for sure is… These women are super smart, but not smart enough to realize they are the root of their problems…


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