Men Lie, Deal With It...




So I’m going to put it out there, MEN LIE!!! Yep we lie about the things we do… The things we’ve done…. The things we don’t want to do… I know this isn’t a surprise to any of you reading, but I wanted to put it out there… Since the beginning of time men have fallen… Fallen to the tricks of women… Fallen to ego, pride, and to the expectations of what a man should be… Fallen to scandal… Fallen to the fear of truth…. Men have fallen so many times throughout history until now, we’re expected to fall… Are men capable of telling the truth??? Is there really a gene in every man that causes him to cheat and lie??? Are men capable of finding happiness in just one??? Are men capable of change??? Well to answer all these questions, Men are capable of telling the truth, but the larger question is… Does the man in question see enough value in YOU to tell the truth???


Men lie not because we are natural born liars, but because we either feel you can’t handle the truth; really don’t want the truth, or because we believe you’re gullible enough to believe a lie… Let’s break it down…


Can’t Handle The Truth: Sadly to say, every woman isn’t equipped to deal with truth… Those who are… Listen, process, and act on truth… For example: If a man cheats and shares his indiscretions…. Those women who can handle the truth, listens to what is being said, processes whether or not truth is something they can deal with, and if so they forgive and never bring it up… If they’re unable to deal with the truth, they walk away and never deal with him again…. Those who can’t handle the truth… Hear what he says, processes and applies it to self (compares themselves to the one he cheated with) and instead of kicking him to the curb, they stick around constantly reminding him of his actions and punishing themselves…


Really Don’t Want The Truth: Sadly to say, some women have committed to the misconception all men lie… As long as he’s not bringing home an STD or a baby; his checks aren’t being split between two homes; he’s buying them what they want, they’re okay with inappropriate behavior and lies… As long as there is no visible evidence, he has free reign to do whatever he chooses… These women don’t want to hear or know the truth, because they refuse to deal with the reality of their own issues… These women play as though they’re self-consumed with the “upgrade” he brings to their life, but in reality they feel they’re not worthy of better or willing to accept the outward appearance of happiness to cover up the inward truth of hopelessness.


Gullible Enough To Believe A Lie: Men are hunters, we like to hunt and conquer… Sadly to say, some men are on the hunt for women who are gullible enough to believe the gibberish coming out of their mouths… There’s a thin line between the women who are gullible and those who really don’t want to hear the truth… The line that separates them is the gullible women sees and knows the truth, whereas those who don’t want to know it, goes to great extremes to avoid hearing and seeing it… Gullible women are those who either just want a man or just plain out stupid… They’re the ones who friends tell them the truth and afterwards they go home and share it with the man… They’re the ones who eventually finds themselves on an island all by themselves because he has convinced her that all her friends are jealous of their love…


What I know for sure is… All men are capable of lying, but there are men who recognizes what he has and aren’t willing to lose it over a lie… Men fear telling the truth sometimes not because of their guilt, but because of the fear of losing… Those who knows the “freedom” in which truth gives, stand up to their fear and share it regardless to how painful it may be…. Truth frees him of walking around in secret darkness… Truth frees him of constantly having to remember what was previously spoken.. Truth frees him of the chains holding him to a moment in time… Men lie about what they believe can’t be handled…. What isn’t wanted to know and to those who are crazy enough to believe it… Ask yourself, "Are you worth the truth???"


Coming 09.23.2020





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