More Than Friends, Less Than A Couple...




Have you ever found yourself wondering where you stand in a person’s life? You know like you don’t quite love him/her, but you’re far past liking him/her…. The two of you seem to enjoy each others company; have much in common and there have even been times when you could complete his/her sentence because you just know them like that…Now we’re grown folks here, so no need in beating around the bush…. The two of you have even had sex without expectations, but since the encounter you find yourself maybe wanting to take it to the next level, but don’t want to come off clingy or needy.


So the two of you are more than friends, but less than a couple… In today’s terms this would fall in the category of “It’s complicated”…. Maybe he/she have expressed a relationship is not what they’re looking for or desire at this moment…. Maybe he/she are legally married, yet almost legally divorced…. Maybe he/she recently ended or never have been in a relationship and just having fun…. Whatever the case may be, you’re stuck between more than friends and less than a couple…


So where am I going with this??? Well life is too short for complicated situations…. Life is too short to want more, but receive less…. Life is too short for being more than friends, but less than a couple… Life is too short for you not to find clarity in any situation you are involved with…. So many times we miss out on great things because we are entertaining mediocre things…. Ladies become wives/girlfriends/side pieces to men who are incapable of being a husband and far less than a real man…. Men become husbands/boyfriends/sponsors to women who are incapable of being wives/mothers and far less than what it take’s to be a good companion.. In other words they settle for what appears to be the best, but have had limited experiences with greater.


What I know for sure is… Get a clear understanding…. Less than a couple opens the doors to hurt feelings, misunderstandings and lack of communication…. Less than a couple opens the doors to broken promises, failed expectations; time wasting and regrets…. More than friends closes the doors to opportunities of meeting the one you’re supposed to be with…. More than friends closes the doors to you truly getting what you want and deserve…. Again, we’re grown folks here talking…. If you want more and they’re unable to give it, do yourself a favor and walk away…


"I Owe Him" Coming 11.24.2020





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