She's "Wifey Material"...




So I was chatting with a female friend of mine regarding a recent viral video of a woman proposing to a guy... You could hear all the "oooh's" and "awwww's" saturating the room, but I'm more than sure someone in the room thought, "How much more desperate could she be?"... You see a woman is only allowed to pursue her desires if it pertains to her career, spirituality; to some degree her sexuality, dreams, but never a man... It's the job of the man to hunt the woman and her job is to be conquered...


Many women, including some of you reading this post have vowed to never propose, seek after or chase... You refuse to lower your standards and have convinced yourself, if a man wants you, he will find you... So I have a question for you, how's that working out for you? Got a man? Have a potential? Any prospects???


As we continued to chat, I asked why does it have to be the job of the man to hunt a woman? Her response "It's not a hunt, if she wants you, she spends time doing wife type shit outside the bedroom, hoe shit in the bedroom letting you KNOW she want chu!"... So kudos to all the women who extends these types of services, but are you expecting some type of compensation? You know like a ring?


Many times when women go out of their way to show a man she wants him, she feels played when he doesn't respond eventually with "Will you marry me?". She feels used, betrayed and feels she's wasted her time on someone who didn't see her value. I've said it a thousand times before, NEVER BE A WIFE TO A MAN WHO IS ONLY YOUR BOYFRIEND/HOOKUP...


What I know for sure is... A ring is not the ultimate, nor is it the "all in" for a man... Men process love and feelings differently. Some propose quickly, while others never propose... Whichever type of man a woman encounters, SHE HOLDS THE POWER as to how long SHE CHOOSES to wait for him to decide; get his shit together, or proposes to her... Ladies, if you're going to be a wife to a man who isn't your husband, that's a choice YOU MAKE... Your choices may not bring you the end result you were hoping for... If you choose to gamble your time, energy and gifts, that's your choice... Life isn't a Casino where you win Marriage for taking a risk dealing "Wifey Behaviors"...


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