She Wants Him, He Wants You...




So I came across the above post and knew instantly I had to write about it... On this past weeks podcast, we talked about loyalty and I wish I would have seen his before the podcast, before I can't agree with it more... I honestly believe sometimes we miss out on who is destined for us because our friend has either placed dibs on the person, or because we're afraid to hurt our friends feelings by dating someone they were interested in, but the interest wasn't mutual... Should boundaries be placed on loyalty?


Now in no way am I hoping to change the way you think or even cause you to question your loyalty to a friend... But how many of you have met a guy/gal while out with a friend and your friend, both of you were attracted to the person, but your friend persuaded you to stand down??? I think we all have that friend who tends to place dibs on anyone new... That friend who is kinda selfish; secretly jealous and envious of you, or the friend who believes they're the hottest of the bunch, so we have already made up our mind we aren't going to fight them over anyone... But what if the person they want, wants you? What if the person they want is the person God has destined and prepared for you???


What I know for sure is... Many times we miss out on things because someone intercepted God's plan... It could be a mate, a job, a car.... You were supposed to be the catcher, but just as you reached out, here goes your friend out of nowhere... I know many of you may not agree with what I'm saying, but loyalty should have boundaries and limitations... In the case above, it won't ever work for the friend... Both you and your friends mate will forever wonder, "What if she/he would have kept their ass at home?", lol...


Seriously, if the man/woman is meant for you, a friendship shouldn't and WON'T keep it from being yours...


Check out the podcast "Friends Ain't Loyal" by clicking below....




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