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The Agreement




Why should any woman settle for an “agreement”? Be under contract to any man? Agree to his terms in which minimize; discredit; or devalue her as a woman? Should age, size, color of her skin, texture of her hair decide what she accepts or agrees to? Should her past dictate whom or what she encounters? Why should any woman be forced into a situation in which she is destined to lose?


Why should any woman be asked to commit to an non-committal type man? To stick around while he decides whether or not he wants to get his “shit” together? Why should any woman play the waiting game with a man who isn’t on a time schedule? Invest in a man who doesn’t see his own value? Push a man who is content where he is? Love a man who is emotionally unavailable? Raise a boy who is physically a grown ass man? Why should any woman be forced into a situation in which she is destined to lose?


Ladies, never agree to a losing situation… You know like a situation where you agree to only sex with a man you want to love… Or how about a situation where you agree to be the “other” woman, opposed to the only woman… Or lets say you want to be married; have kids; but the man you’re with doesn’t... Lastly, how about sticking around with a man who lacks passion; vision; dreams; goals and desires… You are worth more than this, so a man who proposes anything similar, doesn’t deserve you…


What I know for sure is… Making “the agreement” to settle for anything less than what you deserve, you’ve already loss… You’ve loss time; energy; money… You’ve loss pieces of yourself; bits of your dreams… You’ve loss days; months and years investing in someone you will eventually cut loose… Why should any woman be forced into a situation in which she is destined to lose? SHE SHOULDN’T….


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