The "Side Chic" Experience...




So this post is for those of you ladies who have been cheated on; currently being cheated on or in your foreseeable future, will be cheated on…. So do you know your man? Do you really know what he likes or dislikes? When speaking with his friends, do you learn new things about the one you’re with? Do you know his favorite food? Or do you know your favorite food that he enjoys? Just how well do you know your man?


It’s sad, but many of you believe you know your man, but some other woman knows him better…. Not because they’re pushing up on him, but because they truly listen to him. You see every time he’s with her, it’s about him…. It’s about him expressing who he is today and not being held accountable to the man he was yesterday…. The other woman doesn’t emphasize his failures, she highlights his accomplishments…. He smiles, laughs and enjoys being with her because for that brief moment, he’s important…


So let me ask this…. When was the last time you made it about him? The last time the two of you had a date night and the problems within the relationship never surfaced? When was the last time you initiated doing something he enjoys? The last time your man had an experience with you that made him want to go home and bang you? Oh I forgot, Steve Harvey told you “Men don’t need all of that” and Derrick Jaxn convinced you, “Put yourself first”…. Because of this some other woman has your mans mind…


What I know for sure is…. The other woman is winning in many of your situations…. Not because she’s better; prettier; finer or smarter than you, but because she’s doing a better job of pleasing your man than you…. The truth is many of you don’t want to put in the work. You’ve been hoodwinked into believing relationships are all about the woman, and that’s a lie that needs to be broken…. The grass on the other side isn’t always greener, most times it’s just the grass on your side isn’t being taken care of…. Give your man “The “Side Chic” Experience” sometimes, and there’s no need for the other woman. Ask him what he needs and after that, be it…


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