What Do I Get???



I’m always blown away when I see a woman give everything to a man, but he gives nothing to her… You know like she’s being a wife to a man who doesn’t even want to be a friend… How about that woman who supports his grind, but he won’t even acknowledge her existence… In her eyes he’s everything she wants, but in his eyes, he wants nothing from her…


So maybe it’s not so bad after all, she gets occasional “D”; a “Netflix and Chill” night, or maybe even an occasional dinner as long as it’s the two of them… She’s the focal point of his attention in private, but invisible in public… She talks him up to her friends, while he puts her down to his friends… She wants to be with him, but it takes everything in him to be around her…


Is it that she is blind and can’t see the signs? Could it possibly be she’s overconfident and believes she can change his mind? Maybe she don’t want a relationship and just going along for the ride, you know that thing a lot of women are doing in 2020 (sounds like the right thing for me to say)… Whatever the case may be I’m always blown away by women who give their time to men who aren’t deserving of it…


What I know for sure is… If anything I’ve written above instantly transports you to what you’re perceiving as a relationship; situationship or chillationship, you’re wasting your time… Whether it’s a man or woman, when they’re into you, not only do you know it, but you feel it… You don’t have to beg him/her to give you the attention you so rightfully deserve... When they’re into you the occasional “D” or “P” follows the gift of the heart and mind… So maybe they’re just not into you, but you are into him/her too deep to see it… But anytime you’re giving everything to someone who is giving you’re nothing, you should walk away… Stop being the world to someone who won’t even acknowledge you on earth…




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