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When A Man Is Ready To Walk...




Ladies, this one is just for you… Some of you have a damn good man, but you can’t see it because you’re blinded by YOU… You’re so consumed with what you want until you can’t see he’s NOT getting what he wants… Here recently I’ve had several conversations with buds of mine about their relationships and to be honest, every last one of them have considered walking away… Walking away from a life that is nowhere close to what they would have imagined it being… They’re tired of the arguing; of always being broke; of the pity sex and sadly to say, they’re getting tired of the woman they’ve committed themselves to loving…

So where am I going with this you ask??? Well ladies, I talk with women all the times and hear how they believe all the good men are either married, taken, or gay… Well for those of you who have a good man, if you don’t get your ish together here real soon, there’s about to be “A Few More Good Men” on the market and unavailable to YOU…. So you ask, “John, what is it I should do to keep my man???” and to be honest Chica, that’s a pretty good question…


Well first try being the woman he fell in love with… Some of you changed after you got the man, and I’m not only talking about your decreased appetite for sex, hair color, or size… But you changed how you look at him…. You changed how you treat and appreciate him… You changed how you speak to him… You changed how you speak of him to others… Not all men have messed up in a relationship, some of you women just don’t know how to treat a man and sadly to say, you’re about to lose the one you got…

Secondly, tell him… It’s sad, but some of you haven't told your man “Bae, I love you” in months… You haven’t said “I appreciate you for being an amazing dad, provider, husband/boyfriend…” Some of you reading haven’t said one kind word to your man in years…. You miss his birthday, fathers day, your anniversary and all other holidays without making him feel special in your life… But what’s really sad is you have the audacity to be insecure when it comes to other women…. If you’re going to check your man on other women, be the woman he needs you to be first…

Lastly, show him… When was the last time YOU TOOK YOUR MAN OUT ON A DATE??? You paid for the meal? You drove him? You purchased him a nice shirt, pants, and shoes to wear??? When was the last time you paid for him to go to a shop and get a facial, proper haircut??? For some of you reading, the answer is NEVER!!!! If you have a good man, you better show him because there are plenty of other women waiting in line to show him…

What I know for sure is… We as men need exactly what women need, TO FEEL NEEDED, WANTED, AND LOVED…


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